i met my Husband / Master at a party...i went with a girl i worked with, that He had gone to high school with. We left together that night and the rest is history! we were not into the lifestyle at all at the time, and had a very vanilla relationship for the first several years we were together. that was in 1993, we were married in 1996 (in fact our 10th anniversary is coming up next week) and we have been exploring and expanding our relationship in this lifestyle for the past 2 - 3 years.