Quote Originally Posted by nikita
Ozme, as you stated, the relationship a switch has with other tops or bottoms are assumed based on the other person's orientation. In other words, the switch slides into the position that the other person needs. NOT SO.

The communion of two souls is determined by the feedback they give each other. I don't know of any switch who doesn't say, 'It takes a special person to top me.'
I totally agree. It does indeed take a special person to top me, and I am only interested in topping women with certain qualities. To me, someone who tops or bottoms based on the other person's orientation is submissive even if they end up on top. I have spoken to dominant women before and felt like, if anything, it should be me dominating them, for various reasons.

I call myself a switch because it's easier, but a bit like pejanon was saying; I'm either one or the other at any given time with a specific person, never both. I'm capable of holding 2 relationships and being different roles in each, though I have to keep them seperate. I could talk to them at the same time online in seperate conversations but never in the same, nor could I be playing in the same room with both, it just wouldn't work.