MoF - I appreciate your ability to know what your striving for, and do what you need to, so that you are able to achieve it. I am glad you had a postitive experience on the forms. As far as if you can have your wife as a "true" submissive, never let anyone define what that would really be, except you and your wife. If anyone else gives you a definition that isn't what you think. Then they are the ones who are wrong. Not you.
Remember, the relationship you have with your wife, and how you conduct your marriage is of your choosing, if you and her want her to be submissive, and whatever actions you decide define that. Then that is how it is.
I wish you good luck and godspeed good man.
You may private message me at anytime. I found you respectful and kind. I never have a problem talking things over with someone who is brutally honest. My email is IDCrewDawg@hotmail.com should you desire to contact me.
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