Thanks everyone for sharing. I have been feeling rather needy and insecure lately and very jealous of those of you with R/L partners. I guess what I'm getting out of this is what I've known all along. What people find attractive is a personal thing. The media doesn't seem to have biased people as much as I expected. I know some thin people suffer as much prejudice and harassment for their size as do heavy people. I was also wondering if the guys feel pressure to bulk up, as the media often portrays muscle bound hunks as the male ideal.