I don't care much about physical appearance.

What attracts me to a woman is more things like... how far she'll go to please me, a lack of limits, and to some degree naivete. Its been a long time since 'vanilla' sex could make me cum without a tremendous amount of concentration. I generally just find it unappealing.

To some degree, when I fuck a woman, its less the sensation of her holes or shape of her body that brings me to orgasm... and more the state of her mind. I don't know if that's clear; if anyone else understands what I mean.