Master and I met online. I had other online relationships before I met Him. Those were both blessings and curses. They were blessings in that I could see how different Doms behaved towards their subs (I had one who was very strict, where I could not speak until spoken to, had lots of tasks to complete, etc. Another one was very relaxed and let me basically do what I wanted to do as long as I was respectful and obeyed Him). I also got to be a kajira for one Master, which I probably would not have been able to do in real life. The o/l relationships were also curses in that the Doms were experts in handing out the velcro collars and that is not a good feeling when you haven't seen your Dom in a week online and then see another sub wearing His collar and His name.

My relationship with Master has been a blessing from the beginning. I wasn't collared by an o/l Dom when W/we met, but I was playing with other Doms online, since I was free to do so then and I still was playing with them for a little while after I initially met Master. However, I knew that W/we were meant for one another and I let the other relationships go to focus completely on Him. I had gone back to college about a year before W/we met o/l, so after classes I would rush home and have some supper, then take my book bag down to the computer lab where I was living. I would do my homework while I waited for Master to come online and then W/we would chat for about six or more hours. I lived for those hours on the computer and I was a mess if the computer kept booting me or I couldn't get online at all. I was amazed at how very quickly I got so intensely involved with Master. I was one of those skeptics who did not believe that you can fall in love with someone whom you had never met face to face. I was quickly proven just how wrong I was!