Quote Originally Posted by Warbaby1943
Don't you think pressing or extending your limits is partially due to gaining experience and confidence plus ultimate trust in your Dom? I feel certain you would back off your limits somewhat if you were just getting acquainted with a new Dom. The activities probably would still make you wet but with someone new you may be understandably apprehensive at first. This, at least, would be my way of thinking.
Yes, very valid point and I think I agree. That's probably why I was so confused at the time when I started this thread. There's a huge difference in what I personally like, what I enjoy doing for my Master and what I'd do for let's say a Taskmaster at the Academy. And this might have piled up to some chaos in my mind.

Thanks to all of you who have replied...it's another piece of the puzzle that's a little closer to being figured out for me.