It's an "only in the bedroom" thing for me, but I think that's because I'm not as into the D/s thing as much as bondage.

I fully respect the fact that a lot of people like to do the D/s thing 24/7, but it's not really something I can wrap my brain around. It works for some people, but it's not for me. We've talked about it, too, and he's not interested in it at all.