Quote Originally Posted by Warbaby1943

What I have gotten out of this thread is that BDSM and vanilla lifestyles have many overlapping signs that could be interpreted either way. So probably in most cases you couldn't be identified.
I'm reaching a different conclusion, and not sure which if either is correct -- that you can be identified, just not by a prescribed sign or set of signs, that usually it's a sense or attitude or feel communicated via something like a "vibe" -- no?

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