I think I understand why. Having experience in both having online submissives and real life submissives, I find that it really does take alot of knowing someone online like a month or two months worth, maybe more depending on how often you two chat online as well, before one would actually consider and feel comfortable in doing so for a real life meet.

If you think of it from a girl's point of view, wouldnt you want to be able to fully trust a Dom and know him well enough that you know that when you meet him in real life for the first time you wouldnt be kidnapped and taken to some dark room and used by an infinity amount of guys? For us guys, I think if for example you meet a sexy blonde girl with big breasts online, 10 mins later you would be inclined to ask them their number and meet with them to have sex.

Unfortunately for girls, there are much more dangers in meeting guys online for real life encounters and hey I would be and have been previously scared off by girls wanting to meet me in real life after Ive been talking to them for like 30 mins on msn.

And maybe this is the answer you are more looking for, yes a large percentage of submissive girls online, are I wouldnt say fake but wannabees, and only want to be used that way as a kinky way to get off and have no intention on being a fulltime submissive for a Dom and especially in real life.

But there are genuine submissives who may and will consider meeting a Dom in real life, just not like after 30 mins or maybe 2 days of talking to them online. Patience is the key