Ok, here is a list, but you'll have to try Amazon.com for the authors since I'm not near my bookcase

To Start...:

Screw the roses, send me the thorns
Dominant Loving
BDSM 101, by Jay Wiseman (name may be spelled wrong)



Then there is The Marketplace Seriese by Laura Antoniou, which provides the most REALISTIC view of actual M/s relationships... it's a series of 5 books, the 6th to come soon!


Good luck & welcome!