How to "recognize" a submissive

[hopperboo]

lol, i so know what you mean , my owner and his wife spotted me as one the minute they first saw me as a possible slave, i didnt even know they were watching me eaither, i was painting 40k figures in a gaming store at the time,

latter that nite in a club downtown i finally saw them, he had her on a leash with her hands cuffed behind her back (which wasnt completely out of place as the club was a goth-industrial/rave bar), i was so intrigued i couldnt take my eyes off them, yet whenever they looked my way i would avert my eyes and allmost blush,

later in the evening i ran into her in the bathroom, she needed assistance to get into one of the stalls, and i helped her out, next thing i knew i was sitting at thier booth having a great time, and then after a couple hours it was on to thier house and well the rest was history....weg

my owner says it is a combination of things , ranging from body posture to eye contact and facial expression, to what we wear etc, he says once he talked to me for a few minutes he knew for sure i was slave material even if i didnt know it myself

That is so romantic! *Melts into a little puddle.*

[SheUsesThem]

And I guess I was looking more for signals in the vanilla world, workplace, grocery store, etc., than an a club, and it may be that i's a sixth sense and not something that can be described, but sort of wondering if someone won't look you in the eyes, sort of thing, but that could just mean shy, not submissive, or if someone steps out and lets you go first or holds a door, is just good manners, but what if they look down while they're doing it? I'm new to this, but there are a couple of guys at work I really wonder about, but obviously, couldn't just "have the talk"!