well for starters , feel free to take your time sis, relax, dont rush off to be someones "subbie" especially online, at least not until you know the person far better at any rate

its the ones that rush that make the mistakes most often that lead to the horror stories
i know i learned the hard way myself

thier is hope though, our sites own administrators met on this forum and are a beacon of hope for others that meet over the internet and love bdsm

fear of submission is a very common issue with many submissives, i even get it still sometimes depending on the details of what i am told is planned etc on occasion,

some things to remember escpecially being realativly new:TRUST is earned over a long period of time, ACTIONS will speak louder than words, real Dominants have lots of PATIENCE and will take thier time if they are serious and really want to get to know you, DISIPLINE especially self disipline is paramount to growing in your submission, and last but not least COMUNICATION is key in every relationship, especially our kind

as for lame pick up lines, we have a wonderful thread in the forums where a link is posted to a very interesting article written by and for new submissives, its a hoot and so right on target at the same time , i shall look for the thread and post a link here too,

hang in there sis
hugs and kissessdenuseri