A submissive who is afraid to submit?

[LuciferBlack]

Everyone has had a bad relationship. Regardless of whom you are. Submitting scares more submissives then you think. So your not alone.

I can only speak from my own Dominante nature. but.......

I do not wish a submissive that would not be diserning in her choosing of a Dominante. I want to know that she is my slave/submissive becouse I earned the right. I will DAMNED sure expect her to earn the right to be mine.

One last piece of wisdom. There are not many things worth having that are easy and there are not many easy things that are worth having.