lol, i'm definatly a jeans and hoodie type of girl, but when my boyfriend tells me to dress up im more than happy to comply, and sometimes i like to dress up anyway. i definatley don't feel anyless submissive because im not wearing 'slutty' clothes (although the converse of that is that when i *am* forced to go out looking like a hooker i do feel much more turned on but thats just a humiliation thing)

ahhh people who say things like that are just stupid! grrrr!