I absolutely adore my heels and lingerie, but am also aware that it's not always practical (what with being on a farm) so most of the time I spend my time (when I'm not in the office anyway) in baggy t-shirts and jeans, and usually overalls but I wouldn't class myself as any less submissive because of it, unless of course I was specifically asked/ordered to wear something else in which case that would prevail (unless it is dangerous/unsafe to so so i.e. heels with a combine harvester).

Cari