D/s with children.

[SubmissiveDoll]

Having a D/s dynamic with kids is much easier when the kids are little. The older they get makes things a tad more complicated. My Master and I both have children from previous marriages.

I will sit at his feet, on my laptop, or just to watch TV. I enjoy being at his feet, and sometimes I'll lay my head in his lap and he will pet my hair. I also always have a mark on the back of my neck, sometimes he will 'rub' my neck. It's subtle and other people wouldn't have any idea. But, it's a wonderful reminder to me. He also likes to whisper "mine". Which always makes my heart flutter.

[icey]

it can be awkward at times with kids around regardless of their age, you just have to subtly change things.
for eg,instead of asking to go to the bathroom i casually mention i need the bathroom then he will either nod or shake his head.
instead of saying can i? say maybe i should? instead of him/her saying do he/she can say id appreciate if, or would you mind doing such and such.
i have 4 kids so its not always easy sometimes you just have to put things on hold,drop some routines and adapt others.
and a word of advice...never assume a padlocked toybox will keep your kids out! my teen son is great with hairpins
playtime can sometimes be difficult too and it's more than likely that at sometime you're going to have a close shave,(ive been abruptly thrown behind the sofa,pushed into closets and locked outdoors on more than one occasion lol) just be prepared and take every precaution you can possibly think of.

[~faerie~]

I have two daughters and we dont live with Him just yet, but He and i have discussed all the little things that we will have to adjust from how it is now when i see him alone. I think it is just a matter of using sublte things to show your submissionor for him to show his Dominance.
Playtime however...lol we are still trying to work that one out.