I've been thinking....

[thrall]

Its amazing how strength is misconstrued for dominance..... if you display intelligence, leadership qualities, or the ability to reason.....lol. Well....some just dont get it that that is a public face.....and not who you truly are.....

I do not ....give anyone titles they do not earn! Respect is one thing...titles are a different thing entirety..Period. If a nick has the title embedded within it.....i leave it out. .....hhhmm....queen thrall doesn't sound half bad....LMAO!...I am not insecure enough to try and twist people into calling me something i am not...

And think of it this way.....do any of these people try an get to truly know you??...to find out who you really are???.....or are they only interested in you......addressing them in a fashion that strokes their vanity???

[shayna{L_D}]

And think of it this way.....do any of these people try an get to truly know you??...to find out who you really are???.....or are they only interested in you......addressing them in a fashion that strokes their vanity???

Thrall thank you for your reply. As to if these people get to know me, ive heard this from close friends just trying to honest with me and then just from random people that openly ask me if i am Dom or sub, and then i ask them why they thought i was Dom, then the hateorade comes pouring out. So half yes do know me and the other half dont know me one bit. Im told i should be proud of who and what i am,and i am just that.Im proud to be submissive, but i also don't feel i should change any part of my personality to fit to a certain mold. I wil however tweak aspects of my personality to fit a situation, such as voice restriction and or something along those lines but if a Dom wants to be with me, then he has to want to be with me, flaws (if u want to tell them that) and all.

[DowntownAmber]

Its amazing how strength is misconstrued for dominance..... if you display intelligence, leadership qualities, or the ability to reason.....lol. Well....some just dont get it that that is a public face.....and not who you truly are.....

Thrall, you know I love you so I have to pick on you for this line.... (I'm even going to bust out my special extra ....'s just for you! )

Intelligence, leadership qualities, and the ability to reason do not a public face make.....I tend to think I posess these qualities and they really do happen to be a piece of who I "truly" am.

In fact, it's these very traits that I bring into the releationship I have with J as gifts I give to him through my submission....my submission neither changes these qualities nor makes them any less borne of me....they simply cease to be used as tools to interact and move through the world, and instead become the giifts I use to pleasure and to serve him....