as a sub myself i do hope that a sub can drive their dom crazy and to the breaking point that they will take their sub in the heat of passion and desire. because that is what i am hoping will happen between me and my Master. subs want to know that though their Master/Mistress has all the control and final say in what happens. they also like to know that they have some affect on their Master/Mistress desires and wants. i know i love the feel of my Masters hands on my body when his desire is escalated and he wants to be near me and to know i have the ability to draw my Master excitement to a peek id also like to know that i can push his control to the point where he will just take me at a seconds notice and have his way because my servicing him drew him to that point.