A Mistake and a Lesson

[delish]

Here's what I got out of it- and I may be entirely wrong- but Doms are all about control. Self-control is essential. So I don't think the mistake that was made was actually about the physical harm he did to her, but about the fact that he went further than he wanted to because he was not in control of himself.

However, if she was not damaged by this, I don't know why she would need help setting up boundaries, since they are obviously different than his. I would think a note of caution to her new Dom would work out just as well.

[VP]

I digress, perhaps I didn't explain it accurately.
FIrstly, I did go farther than what I had intended when we began. Secondly, she did enjoy it all, and even today shows of some of the marks because she I actually a person with no limits and cannot say no. If you beat her into a bloody pulp, she wouldn't ask you to stop because she simply can't say no.
And third, yes I did leave marks, two scars and both not at all small, neat or anything short of painfully ugly. I lost control once though there were several consequences.