Bambina
First of all, i would like to take the time for thanking you for starting this thread. When i began my exploration of my submissive side (am a switchie). As others have stated, people come to the chat room and the forums for a various reasons. Some are seeking a short term cyber pal. Some are seeking a long term submissive/Master/Miss. Now, i have chatted on this site, with quite a few dominants who were interested in who i was. The whole of me, wanting to know about my interests if they were bdsm related or not. I find for myself, the ones that ask about who you are as a person, before exploring/asking about your bdsm fetishes are the best type of Sir/Ma'am's. And most likely the best one suited for you and vice versa.
I do hope that you find what you are seeking.
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