pick things that you want done, and it doesnt matter if he wants to do them or not. he doesnt have to not enjoy doing them, but you definitly have to enjoy the fact that he is doing them.

It sounds like you want to humiliate him. There are lots of ways you can do that.. make him wear your underwear, lead him around the house on his hands and knees. yell at him and belittle him (sp?) if you feel like it, pee on him and mark your territory..stuff like that. These are all things that he wont not enjoy, but hopefully you will enjoy more and he will like that you are likeing them... whew i need a beer now