Why do many BDSM people look down on switches?

[thir]

[QUOTE=sinderella;754596]

i hope this helps...please continue to ask if i have not responded to your satisfaction...i don't want to make anyone feel bad

I wrote a long response which promptly disappeared, just as the last 5 I wrote. So until I have sorted this problem out, I can only and quickly say:
I do not feel bad! I just wanted to ask for clarification,being interested in what you say, and you very kindly took the time and bother to do so.
All is not clear - thanks! ;-)

[sinderella]

[QUOTE=thir;755001]

I wrote a long response which promptly disappeared, just as the last 5 I wrote. So until I have sorted this problem out, I can only and quickly say:
I do not feel bad! I just wanted to ask for clarification,being interested in what you say, and you very kindly took the time and bother to do so.
All is not clear - thanks! ;-)

oh well, you can't say we didn't try...

[thir]

[QUOTE=sinderella;756498]

oh well, you can't say we didn't try...

Blast! I had to hurry so much before everything disappeared (doen anyone else have this problem??) that I got it wrong.

I meant to say that everything is clear, thanks.

Sorry about the confusion - must be off..