hm, i wouldn't call it a date, but i wouldn't call it playing either. We met in Greece, a friend of a friend and what-not introduced us -- i was 16 at the time, he was 24 [+/-]. We did get into a D/s conversation after several games of backgammon [haeh] and, well, i think that was my first proper whipping heh. naw, i haven't dated vanilla-let alone non-vanilla. Dating seems so complicated but i'm sure i'll get it sooner or later--at least, hopefully heh.
ah, i'll shush it now