This is a wonderful thread. I have always wondered about my parents. When my mother was alive, she catered to my father's every whim. Of course they were from a generation that boasted of "a woman's place is..." and the man is "Lord and Master" in his home. So perhaps it was societies dictates. Later on in life, however, I learned that she never wore "panties" i wonder if that's any indication? lol And I did find some things that could be used as toys. Hmmmm. makes me wonder?????????