Ahhh that's a personal decision on your part--but that isn't "life." You CHOOSE to still stay, you CHOOSE to limit your out options. I am not saying you are right or wrong--I respect you & your decision--it's yours to make, not mine or anyone else's... I was simply providing a counter-point to the notion that consensual nonconsent is what you were saying it is--sure, if you look a realism/substantive view. But from a formalist perspective, it's impossible... that was my point ~smiles~

I wish you well.