My collar is with Mia'Cova. He made it for me.

We had discussed that it was tantamount to a wedding ring, and we both agreed that we felt that way about each other, even if we can't yet be married.

I have tried it on, but we are waiting to have a meaningful time togehter for a "ceremony" of sorts where I will be officially collared. He will still keep it with him, but when I visit it will be around my neck.

In the meantime I wear a necklace he gave me 24/7 (except when showering, as that would damage the cord) and it is a constant reminder of his love, our devotion and his ownership.