----Yeah you know me---

I'm surprised no one else has said this but --- Be happy you are so damn hot and desirable that all these people want you.

However, the downside is you have to put up with all this unwanted attention. It sucks, I know. I've developed a thick skin since men have been talking to my boobs instead of my face since I was 13.
Your lack of relationship definition with Voodoman shouldn't be an issue -- if you feel an emotional tie and feel the need to stay exclusive no one should be able to tell you otherwise. No one should make sexual advances without permission and you shouldn't need the oversight of a boyfriend/Master/whatever to keep the other men away. If you let them know you aren't interested/are seeing someone else they should respect that and leave it platonic. The only solution I've found is to stop hanging out with men who don't respect my (2yr) relationship. I've gotten "business calls" when men try to hit on me in public and I don't want to deal. Get your girl friends to help too, I've played a lesbian to get rid of one guy who was really irritating but nice enough for me to be nice about it. And if they are too persistent, a good kick in the nuts gets the message across use only as a last resort of course : )