Quote Originally Posted by Arria View Post
See it like this - a woman who is seeking will dress up and go out.
But also, a woman who just wants to have a nice evening out (no matter if she is in a relationship or not!) on herself/with friends, will also dress up and go out.
Most men I met are NOT able to tell the difference.
*dies laughing* That is SO true!

I know she has a point, but I'm stubborn as hell. I don't have any platonic guy friends or gay friends. I'm on my own. The wife tells people I'm her girlfriend in an attempt to keep the wolves at bay. Sometimes it backfires. *lol* I've also taken to hanging out with the bouncer to avoid people.

I know part of it *is* my fault because I'm a flirt and an attention whore (and manic-depressive), so I'm angry at myself for my lack of control and judgment when I'm out partying. I just wanna blow off steam...*pouty pout* But I know I'm a bit over the top. And I'm angry at friends and guys for not being more in control of themselves which really isn't fair. AND I'm angry at VoodooMan for not taking control of me. I'll probably go out this weekend, so I'm going to *try* to tone it down and see what happens. *sigh*