Quote Originally Posted by BryansGrrrl View Post

He would ask me leading questions, "Do you want to do this?" and "Is this ok to do?" and see my reactions. He wasn't really asking for permission, so much as GIVING me permission to want those things... if you see what I mean.

*sigh*

I'm not explaining myself very well and I don't think I've helped. LOL
I think that's excellent, BG. I've had that feeling many times. The Dom can only lead you submit but the sub has to decide to.