With the right partner, sex will be even more perfect than in the porn you watch.

He/ she may not look like a porn star. They almost certainly won't act like the actors on pornos do.

But when the connection is right, the dynamics are right and you just click, perfect, mind blowing sex is more than possible in real life.

BDSM flavoured sex may not be the answer for you. Definitely not if you are expecting a dom to be able to instantly intuit and satisfy all your fantasies in one sitting. But if you are clear within yourself about what you want, you are certain to eventually find a partner who matches.

This may sound silly and glib, but maybe finding a guy who enjoys the same sort of porn that you do could be a good place to start.