I understand this fear of sexual inadequecy from your partners (all men feel it, at least initially). You need to find some way to boost their fragile male ego and reassure them that it is not their inadequecy that is causing this problem. [*slightly joking*] maybe you could make it a competition 'oh, no man has ever made me cum. Perhaps you are man enough to do it?'![]()
ya i will try that.. lol men need to ball up and not be afraid to compete with something electric.. i will try the competition thing and relax.. and try to instruct them..i suppose mostly i just have to relax... i just get so worked up about it all