it has been a long time since i was here, but i am so glad i came back. i also have had this same issue and for the longest time i thought there was something seriously wrong with me. it is good to know that i am not alone, to be able to talk about this openly, is a huge sigh of relief. for me, i can cum alone..with toys the problem is just getting past my head ( i think too much). i have almost cried at times when i want to please my Master and then find that i cant ( or to me it seems that way). thank you...