I talked my now ex-husband into tying me up during sex. He hated it. I loved it. I was hooked. That was followed by another 7 years of totally non-kinky sex, with me trying to spice things up constantly. When we split the first thing I did was go right out and find me a Dom who was more than happy to do all the kinky things I love! Now, our first night together was a highly invigorating rape scene. *eyes glaze over as i remember that night* yummmm............