Hehe. This is probably my biggest problem. Master actually made me identify on fetlife as a Bottom over submissive until I "am able to call him Sir in public and everyday speech." This bothers me a lot, but I just can't seem to use it as often as he would like. This weekend I actually suggested a shock collar as a more immediate reminder. I am hoping the faster it becomes automatic and I start to get over my uncomfortableness (as I have NO problem saying it in subspace, when I am tired, or at a party when I am drunk [no scening being done]) the faster I can move onto other training. Master is being far too patient and lenient...and I am being way too harsh. Let me know how it goes and if it gets any easier for you Kahlann.