Truthful answer...... I dont know. Just talking online I knew he had something special, something that I had been looking for (even though I didnt know it at the time). By the time we met face to face and he asked me the question 'yes or no' as he leaned in the car window I already thought I knew, but having him look in my eyes.... with so deep and powerful a stare it made me tremble, then I really knew. Now when I look in his eyes my immediate reaction is always one of intense excitement, mixed with an overwhelming desire to kneel for him. I suppose a lot of the feelings brought to the surface are because I had always been submissive, just didnt have someone to bring it out in me. The excitement I feel when we meet is compounded by knowing that he will use me, because nearly all the experiences he subjects me to are new to me. The caring, but firm way with which he carries these things out never worries or frightens me as I know he would never hurt me (any more than I need to be hurt - if you get my drift). So there you are, not really an answer you can get your teeth into, but an honest one and one which I hope explains why he is my Dom.