There were a few hard limits that took me a long time to get over, a couple years in fact. After getting over them though, it allowed me to be with a potential Domme that would not have worked out before. That leap from hard limits to no hard limits is a tough one but again your right, it also comes down to being with the right person in the first place, and being able to trust them, that in itself takes time. You can't just jump into the relationship, and expect everything to work out perfectly.

"Expect Nothing, Prepare for Anything"
Blake