Why is everyone jumping all over me to go see somebody? I'm seeing a midwife and I never said otherwise. I'm actually a student midwife myself, so I'm very familiar with any warning signs in pregnancy.
I don't think anybody was "jumping all over" you and I guess the good news is that as a student midwife, you should have no trouble convincing your husband that sex during pregnancy is safe (with or without a brain-mushing blowjob!).