Guera, I'm going to do my best. I've just decided that we should have some type of "ceremony" after I've lost the wrestling match. I'll vow to beat his ass since I couldn't kick it.

Thank you, denuseri. The collar means diddly squat to you know who, but it's a reminder to me of who's in charge in that relationship. I can ask for what I want, but I might not get it. If I do get it, it will be his way, not my way. I can take what he offers or leave. I cannot manipulate him into doing things the way I think they "should" be done, but my voice is always heard.

LOL @ fetishdj