anal

[Archeon]

Telling someone to "relax" is all well and good... but doesn't do much to actually aid you in the midst of the invasion. (Heheh... the word "invasion" is soooo visual for me. )

But if you actually "push" as if you were evacuating your bowels (not squeeze but push) you'll help loosen your sphincter and open up quite a bit.

When I detect resistance at my girl's backside, I remind her to push and it definitely helps.

I was myself reminded of this technique just this morning by my doctor during my digital rectal exam. (Not that she has particularly thick fingers... but then I don't find myself bent over a padded bench all that often either. LOL)

Now all I can think when I see your avatar is a little green man getting anally violated.

[oww-that-hurt]

To makes things easy and fun, go slowly. This isn't a horse race!
There is no such thing as too much lube. The more the merrier.
"JO H2O Warming Water Based Anal Personal Lubricant" is excellent, stays around, is very slick, is latex safe, and is silicon friendly for your favorite silicon butt-plug.
Set aside some time for yourself. Collect your supplies (lube, clean-up towel, sterilized and warmed plug, music if you want, oh heck, light a few candles, too). Get relaxed. Lube up a couple of fingers and then massage around your anus, slowly slipping in one or two, in-out-twisting - more lube, and when you feel relaxed enough work in the plug. Do not live with pain! If pain, back out and get back to fingers.
With practice you will get the correct feel for how YOUR body will accept something through the anal ring. You will be able to move on from the plug to silicon dildoes, then the real thing for that special anniversary present.
Good Luck

[sera]

Now all I can think when I see your avatar is a little green man getting anally violated.

That might explain the expression on his face. ROFL


Sorry nia, I have nothing constructive to add, but I just couldn't pass that up. *giggle*

[AnticipatingPain]

Just go slow and as Oz says push out, being touched arousingly at the same time helps; trust me it's worth it in the end...... hmmm bliss.

[13'sbadkitty]

Just go slow and as Oz says push out, being touched arousingly at the same time helps; trust me it's worth it in the end...... hmmm bliss.

that always does it for me too, plus it usually helps if He has been in my pussy for a while and had me cum some too, actually i am pretty sure that there are few things in life that don't go better when W/we start out like that

[Ozme52]

That might explain the expression on his face. ROFL

Just remember.

I'll be back!!

[sera]

Just remember.

I'll be back!!

uh-oh

[Ozme52]

Now all I can think when I see your avatar is a little green man getting anally violated.

Violated is such an "ugly" term Arch.

Imagine the little green man, a leash wrapped around his fist, straight and tautly connected to the collar of an appreciative sub, mouth agape and stuffed with a thick cock, one hand between her legs, one between his...

Does that work better for you?

[skittish doe]

Does that work better for you?

Umm, yes Sir, as a matter of fact it does...