A have a lesbian Mistress. She is 31, i 19. I never call her Mistress. She is "darling", "honey", "sweetie". (The respective Hungarian words: drágám, kedvesem, édesem.) Among outsiders i call her by name or "dear" as other girls. Our relationship is not public. She addresses me by the same names. There is only one that i don't feel entitled to: "my little one". She never calls me "slave". But i obey her strictly and she punishes me hard.