If you knew they didnt want to do it

[Ozme52]

As Master and i were getting to know each other the question of likes and dislikes were brought up and what the hard limits were. Fortunately O/our likes and dislikes and hard limits matched, so there never has been a problem about doing anything that i don't like. We are always communicating and always talk at length if there is something new that either of U/us wants to try.

I suspect on some levels it is rare that a new dominant and submissive's resepective limits don't mostly match. Few of us are really confident that some of our deepseated fantasies won't offend or outrage... and over time, as mutual trust grows, so does our "range" of interests and fantasies.

And to take it further, what also grows with mutual trust is our interest in experimenting with new things and old boundaries.

And to be clear, it's not your trust of your master that has to grow as much as your master's trust in you... that you won't walk when you learn how dark his desires really may be.

The role of the submissive is a complex one.

I always try to please Master, one or two things have been done that i don't particularly like, but Master does and its His pleasure that is uppermost in my mind.

I repeat... the role of the submissive is a complex one.

As His slave 'choices' are not mine.......

Until you decide they are yours... That's why it takes so long to really know your dominant and what's in his heart. He knows this to be true.

So while we're talking about this... understand that the role of the dominant is also exceptionally complex.