Yes, keep in mind that your co-workers can complain, especially if they feel uncomfortable in their environment. That was one of the things I was so worried about- my co-workers picking up on what was going on (fortunately, people who are not in the lifestyle can miss clues that would be blatantly obvious to the rest of us), but thinks like ass-smacking are obvious to anyone and in some cases, completely illegal.

If you want to keep your job, you have to cut it out.