Define love...I doubt that can really be done, though I think denuseri's post comes as close as it gets, and I think it is inevitable that we will all define it differently. Especially given all the different ways in which we love. For me, love is dragging your ass out of bed and going to get your sister at 2 AM no matter where she is, love is telling the truth even if someone doesn't want to hear it, love is accepting the truth even if it hurts, love is accepting someone for who they are, knowing them as good as/better than, they know themselves, witnessing them at their very worst, and still being able to hand them a cup of coffee in the morning caring more about them than you did the day before. Total love is without judgement, it is unconditional, it is the ability to not like someone much one second and be willing to defend them without question the next. imho.