Maybe the situation could be better communicated. Subs usually do something to deserve something, sometimes doing something the sparks the moment will get a result. I know that if my Master catches me playing around it sets her into the mood really easy and I essentually get the attention desrved. For every action there's a reaction and that pretty much applies to everything in life. Attitude is everthing. I can't remember how many times I've been tied to the door and whipped and in every case I asked for it. I have gotten to know my Master very good and am very careful of what I ask for without asking. Hope everything works out for you and any of the mumbo-jumbo above can help.![]()