Hey. I just wanted to let you know that I understand ENTIRELY how you feel. Especially the part about giving up control so you don't have to worry about not being ABLE to control something yourself. We should definitely talk and friend each other. I use a wheelchair too and at the beginning of a 24/7 relationship as a sub. My Domme knows me very well. She has been my partner for about 2.5 years. We've played around with D/s some, but I have been wanting it for a long time. She finally decided that She would give it to me. Anyway She is calling me now, so I will talk to you sometime soon hopefully.

lauren