Quote Originally Posted by snowflake View Post
an idea for tasking online..

Remember even though such things may not be a turn on sexually it is a reward when you can control your sub enough to have these things accomplished just for you.. BDSM is not just about sex it is about doing for someone we care for and wish to please..
Snow,

I was thinking along these lines just today. I have no doubt that my Dom knows 100% that I am truthful in all things, because I have had to admit to a couple of BIG screw ups that I felt could have ruined one or more aspects of our relationship. I would rather be honest and alone than involved with someone in a lie.

However, as his control over my daily life becomes more and more prevalent AND since he is so far away, I see the appeal of your idea. Not because I feel the need to 'prove' I have been truthful in my household tasks, but because I know it will reach the point of "What's mine is yours. See it when you like, tell me how I can best make you happy by changing it".

Some of my favorite times so far have been the non-sexual interactions. Good luck to you, and please do keep posting ideas for those of us who serve at a distance.