This is the perfect place to find and voice your interest. you will soon get over that . Trust me the people here the one's I've spoken with are very friendly and a bit out there but never the less enjoy their kinks. i was a bit timid. But it didn't take me long to realize hey I'm with people just like myself. It's a nice feeling. Especially when having a bad day I come here and just have a nice time. Or you can just sit back and watch . Then jump in.....It's a blast!!!