While parents are obviously very important to a child, no parent is =everything to a child. Very very soon, outside influences start to make an impression. From TV to other children, and it can be hard indeed to compete.
Not that you should not try!
I agree that sexualizing young girls is wrong, things should go at their own pace and being a good dancer is not the same as being a sexual being, or deliver sex to your audience. It is wrong, as I see it, to combine things that way at that age.