Sorry to hear this if its your situation Storm...HUGS!

I hope and pray its not, and that if it is, you find the serenity and peace of heart to come through this stronger and wiser than when you entered.

I try to follow a little rule for myself, Ive often broken it and wished I didn't. But in any relationship Ive been in, its just not worth it in the end to keep on keeping on in some circumstances and every relationship being a little different makes it hard to tell when is when.

I would like to say that each time I have kicked whoever it was to the curb the second he or she made it clear he didn't really give a dam about me, but that isnt allways how its went so...shrugs.

Its all too easy to say I could have seen it coming sooner etc, we can all do that, especially after the fact, but truth be told when its happening to us we are all just as blind to it as the next person.

In the end, we all have to choose for ourselves.